A very personal blog

pride parin talaga e

people are smart. if they’re down, they don’t need your advice. they know what to do. they just want your company.

my problem is. i hate seeking advice from people who keep on saying “i told you so!” or other close variants like, “i’ve been telling that to you ever since and you never listened” and blaaaahhhh. and if i actually followed their advice they’ll go bragging that they’re the wise guru who told me what to do that’s why i’m leading the good life right now. ugh

in short, i hate seeking advice from people. cos sometimes they do it not because of genuine concern, but just for showing off. guess what, people say the same things. each problem has a generic solution. people know what to do with their problems, but sometimes they just want the assurance that they’re doing the right thing by validating it from friends.